If Doubt Kills Us, Numbers Saves Us.

When we start to loose faith in what we believe in, we start to doubt ourselves. Doubt our abilities, belief and confidence. We justify this doubt with our actions. That's why I say, doubt kills us.

It really does. When you are going to jump a distance, and you know you can do it. You hear someone say "Can or not? Are you sure?" Guess what? Do you jump? You hesitate and you stop, you start to doubt yourself.

But if you have practiced the jump so many times, you wouldn't even hesistate and jump. Practice is not a 'one time thing'. It is by the numbers. That means, you do it over and over again until you succeed and have the confidence to do it. Only through doing it many many times, can you grow this confidence.

So, "If doubt kill us, numbers saves us."

This is universal, doubt can only be removed by persistence, effort and confidence of doing it over and over again. And when we don't have the luxury of time to repeat it. Then do what I do. Find more people who have done it and leverage their belief, their commitment and their confidence as your own. They make up YOUR numbers!

"What you lack in skill, you make up in numbers." - Jim Rohn

Leaders leave no room for doubt, they are certain 100% of the time.

To your success!
Wiling

Life is Exciting!

There is a link below where you will find 30 over famous quotes on fear. Fear really paralyses people and prevents people from taking the very step that will change their lives and future.

We fear because we are uncertain of the outcome. And fear of failure, fear of rejection and fear of being looked down and laughed has really stopped 95% of the population from achieving their dreams. Then, who are the other 5%? Well, they are the ones who succeed in life, those that we read about, admire, idolize and respect. Why aren't they afraid? What makes them different than the rest?

I guess, they realized that even if they were to fail, be rejected and be looked down and laughed at, that they would still see another sun rise the next day. What was the worse that could happen?

Really, what would be the worse that could happen? And could you live with it?

How about, not only living with it, but know that what you believe in and what you are doing is getting you what you truly want in life?

"At the point when you decide, fear becomes excitement. You start to build a life instead of destructing your own."

Deciding you will be successful, leaves no doubt that you won't.
Deciding is the beginning of better things to come.

And what is the decision is wrong? What then?

Well, the decision was not wrong. It was only a detour, a new chance to start in a new direction.

There are no wrong decisions, only the lack of making one.

So decide now, that life is exciting and fear is no longer an obstacle, it's has become a motivation.

To your success!
Wiling

Quotes on Fear

Where can we go with what we already know now?

Got a minute? Let me ask you...

Where can we go with what we already know now?

The answer to that, is simply...

"No where that you haven't been."

I realized the importance of this from a close friend, Felix. He said that we can only produce the same results given the knowledge that we currently have. And to excel to a higher level, we need to grow beyond what we know to achieve a different, a better and a higher level of performance that exceeds our current limits and expectations.

This, although is trivial, but we often take this for granted, we know we need to read, learn and improve. We understand the necessity to do so, as they say: Learn to Earn.

The power of this statement, comes not from knowing we need to. But fearing what will happen if we don't. I couldn't imagine a day not learning something new, not improving a certain aspect of my life, not understand humanity and not progressing. I know, that there are a lot of things to learn, but if we just took a minute to learn just one thing, then it would be all worthwhile... at least for that day...

At least for that moment.

To your success!
Wiling

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