Wednesday, February 28, 2007

The Mindset of Attraction

If you can't find what you are looking for, the the issue could be or a possible question may be, "Are you actually looking for it?"

Some people tend to wonder around hoping that something good meets them. And in many cases they are looking for luck to happen. Luck doesn't just happen, it happens because you were prepared to recieve it.


A lot has been said about the Law of Attraction. And I firmly believe that it exists, most of what has happened to me, has been because of a conscious thought, an imagination or vision of what I want.

However, to attract, we need to know what we are looking for in order to attract it to us.

We need to be always on a look out on exactly what we want, so much so, that it becomes a habit and a lifestyle. It is like a policeman looking out to prevent crime, constantly searching for signs, patterns, trends and clues. In fact when you have made it into a habit, you will be looking for it unconsciously.
But, let's take a step back. How do we make ourselves to have this habit of searching? And more importantly, what attitude do we need to have, when we are searching?

If you look at the world from a point of view of it being a chore and tedious routine and would rather sit at home not doing much, then you wouldn't have a tendency to search for what you want. You have already cancelled all possible means of recieving or attract it. You will jusify to yourself how it is a worthless cause to go out and search, that it will be the same anyway, so why bother.

But if you look at the world from a point of view of it being exciting, fresh and new, then every event, occurance, meeting appointment, class, even if you have been there 100 times, will all seem exciting. This is because you are expecting to meet someone new, hear a new way of doing the same thing, trigger a new thought and grow.

Why? Well, each event, occurance, appointment and class builds on to itself. You are never the same person you were a minute ago. Everytime you hear something, even if it is a repeat, is now analysed by your brain in a different context. Just like layers of lava pouring over itself, the first layer cools, and then more lava is flows over it, and adds on the the height. The first few layers are the building blocks of more layers to come. And as well continue to pour new experiences and new feelings on top of existing ones, we become rich with understanding and possibility.

We are never the same person listening to the same speech, we grew a little smarter between the speeches, and the second time around, we looked at it differently, we learned and improved. Sometimes, we learn a little bit, but other times, our growth is exponential. Expect this to happen always.

So, if we go out searching. Make it a point to look at every event, appointment and occurance a gift for you to learn from. These are the marks to success that luck leaves behind for you to follow. Make every effort to be prepared to never miss one. Who know what it may bring?

I will share ways to make searching a habit in my later blogs.
Meanwhile, be excited to do the searching, that's the way to find what you want. And be prepared to recieve it too!

Always,
Wiling
"Attracting it!"